I love all you on here, seriously. Love you. This is why ii just want to only exist on the internet a lot. People downplay when i say i have deep, real, legitimate relationships with.people I’ve known online for years and make fun of it but i prefer you and just Fucking thank all of you. You are the people who drive me to speak up in creative ways, it means a lot. Some of you I’ve known since i was eleven. That. Is. Real. And it’s so so important to get input from people in different areas, cultures, different issues, just, this helps you grow. It does. I care deeply about people I’ve never seen in the flesh and i see nothing wrong with it.
tails28 asked: True, I never mean things as blanket statements. But really, it's impossible to have a conversation with ANYONE where they don't insert their viewpoints.
tails28 asked: Validation is SO important. Men don't understand that shit.
no, i wouldn’t blanket all men into not understanding it, and i wasn’t upset at not being validated. i was upset because i was discussing the way girls treat girls and the guys i were with just inserted their experiences about how hard it was to grow up young. they never said it was harder, disagreed with me with i said being a girl was shitty, but it’s just IMPOSSIBLE TO HAVE A CONVERSATION ABOUT WOMEN WITHOUT MEN INSERTING THEIR VIEWPOINTS and it just drove me nuts last night.
it’s like ugh ok do you not get that i am complaining about how our oppression has made it hard for us to deal with each other then like instead of being like “oh i WANT TO LEARN ABOUT THIS ASPECT OF GIRLS THAT I COULD NEVER KNOW BECAUSE I’M NOT ONE” just “this is how my man brain relates to this” it’s like
men suck at understanding society can i just get some positive messages from girls in my inbox please